Why do victims stay? Why do they protect their abusers — even when the world is watching?
In the wake of the explosive allegations against Sean “Diddy” Combs, one thing has become painfully clear: the public still doesn’t understand trauma bonding.
Today on Misunderstood, Dr. Nadine Macaluso — trauma therapist and former wife of “The Wolf of Wall Street” — joins Rachel a second time to break down how power, fear, and manipulation can trap victims in invisible chains. Dr. Nadine has lived it, studied it, and helps others break free from it.
This episode goes beyond the headlines to examine the psychological web that keeps victims tethered to the very people hurting them — and why walking away is rarely as simple as it sounds.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• What trauma bonding actually is — and how it works
• The tactics powerful abusers use to maintain control
• Why survivors of Diddy’s alleged abuse may have stayed loyal for so long
• The role of grooming, gaslighting, and coercive control
• How to support someone in a trauma bond — and how they begin to heal
Guest: Dr. Nadine Macaluso
Psychotherapist | Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Specialist | Author of Run Like Hell
Follow Dr. Nadine: @therealdrnadine (https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine)
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🔥 If you’ve ever judged a victim for staying — listen to this first.
💥And if you want to get Dr nae’s full original episode where she breaks down exactly how she left her own trauma bond with Jordan Belfort, what it felt like to have us the most well talked about movie still today about her and how she ended up, framing her life and what has become her purpose. ( click here for that episode)
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